Things happen?

Sometimes I wonder if I really believe in destiny. How does it all work? Do you really make things happen or are they just happening to you? Can you control them? Can you control other people that come and go in your life? What would be life like if you really can? But would you like to be controlled by others then? So i guess its more of a special power that’s being called for here.

I believe you may not be controlling others lives but you do affect them and its the way you touch them that you will be remembered. But again you cannot possibly play a positive role in everyone’s life. 

We think we can control so much but in reality our lives are so intertwined with so many others’ that there’s only so much we can do. This again doesn’t mean that we stop trying. It only depends on how many positive forces are acting on you vs the negative ones’. 

So basically the key is surrounding  yourself with as much positivity as you can. Optimism is difficult to build up but is so strong a force that it can sail you through the most trickiest situations without you even feeling it. But it is you who has to nurture it.

So I ask myself a question again. Can I make things happen if i am optimistic and the answer is yes. It is believed that there is a source of energy that surrounds every human being and if we align it with a strong positive force within us, we are capable of so much more.

I believe if you put your mind wholeheartedly to something and not get swayed by life’s meaningless but tempting distractions, you can definitely make a difference. If your intentions are right, the whole universe will conspire with you to make beautiful things happen!